Help me understand Black women’s obsession with build-a-man projects and poverty peen
Read the two different examples above. Help me! Explain it! I’m trying to wrap my brain around it. I don’t understand Black women’s obsession with build-a-man projects and ashy poverty peen. Y’all addicted to it. Black women got all the degrees in the world, but for some strange reason, all that education goes out the window when y’all fall in love with a dude on a 5th-grade reading level.
Some Black women’s standards are:
1) Can he breathe? Girl, get with him!
2) Can he talk? Stay with him.
3) Can he read? He’s smart!
4) Does his peen work? Definite baby daddy potential. Marriage is a no go because according to hoteps, legal marriage is a White institution.
5) He works? Even if it’s 10 hours a week, he’s a good man.
6) Prison peen? At least you know where he’s at.
Chile Black women are supposed to accept basic crap and low standards because our self-worth is dependent upon our relationship status.
I want to focus on Black women who take care of men. Don’t you realize you are stifling him? Taking care of a man emasculates him and he’ll eventually resent you. After you spent your best years repairing a broken man for someone else he’ll leave you for someone who wouldn’t tolerate that struggle love sh**. You ain’t his mama! Get him off your nip. You’re his partner/wife. If a man loves you he doesn’t need encouragement to do well. He will do well because he loves you!
Let’s talk about Black women and prison peen. You have Black women telling the world they don’t eat McDonald’s while wanting to marry Dequan in jail. Dequan is facing 15 to life while Dequan is Big Mike’s prison wife. What do you think happens in prison? I’m like sisters who date inmates, “Don’t you know you’re the side chick?” How can he provide from prison? Does he have a retirement plan? You’re going to be 70 working and taking care of his ass. Get a clue.
Help me understand. What is it about poverty/prison peen that makes a Black woman settle for a lifetime of ramen noodles, hot dogs & pork n beans, paying his child support for his second family no one talks about, fighting hoodrats over a piece of a man and bad credit? You are beautiful and can have any man you want. Why settle for this? If you’re a woman of faith, what happened to being “equally yoked?” Does poverty peen hypnotize you? Is poverty peen made of gold? Is it because the only thing he knows how to do is screw because he has nothing else to offer? If we’re honest most of y’all fake orgasms anyway and you only want him because you’re lonely. I’m trying to understand how poverty peen turns women into junkies like crack heads.
Please make me understand why we’re so starved for attention that some of us are willing to accept breathing and living in toxicity as a quality for an ideal mate. Get therapy and understand you deserve happiness, joy, and someone who will provide and protect. Anything less is unacceptable.
Fyi don’t come to me with the SJW (Social Justice Warrior) classism stuff. People are OK with men and women of other races having standards. Once a Black woman does it, all of a sudden we hate poor men. Nah son. I don’t hate poor men. I hate poverty because I grew up in it. Why would anyone with common sense want to go back to it?
What do you think? The only limit you have is the one you’ve placed on yourself. Think and be limitless.
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