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Hmmm…..interesting. Just leave the neighborhood is the answer?? Where’s the black unity? What’s a community without a mother and father?Just bail out! I don’t get it.
Fathers have en masse abandoned their children. Look at the number of households led by Black women. Look at the rates of domestic abuse and violence against Black women.There is no community when one group is being harmed by the other. It is called a war zone. When men are willing to fight, protect, live for, and die for their women then the tide may turn. Right now the only ones holding down Black families are black women. If Black women want to protect themselves and leave the war zone I do not blame them and neither should you. Instead of questioning those want to leave you should be asking who are the people making our communities unsafe and how can good black men stop them. Until then, a “good” black man’s silence amounts to complicity.
”The most disrespected person in America is the black woman, the most unprotected person in america is the black woman we have to protect our black women” – Malcolm X
I agree with Malcolm X. Our sisters have been greatly disrespected in Amerikkka. As black men we should be standing up and protecting our sisters. We should not allow them to be treated in this manner. And black men wont be respected until we stand up and defend our communities. I have said this many times to brothers. Black men have to be fathers to their children so we can end this cycle of self hatred. Black men have to confront other black men about their behavior. I have caught flack many times for doing this. But it must be done. It really does pain me to see sistas struggling alone so much. But we have to remember that the perpetual domination of whites over blacks requires the criminalization of the black man. In the interest of maintaining and justifying continuity of the White American community,the black man is not only suspected of committing crimes, but is actively provoked and seduced into criminality by it’s White American accusers and persecutors.
White America’s need to dominate black people creates the need to perceive the black man as criminal,and to actualize black male criminality by socializing or ritualizing him into it by dent of judicial witchcraft. The need to projectively perceive the black man as criminal ,to pyscho-socially and politicoeconomically condition his criminality,is reflective of repressed white guilt and criminality. By locking up black men,the white power structure has destroyed the black family. They exploit the black community and take it’s resources. They create the whole entire system so that we would suffer as a whole. Now many black men have bought into the belief that marrying white women is a better option. Or that too many black women are loud and over bearing. Many black women feel like all black men are wannabe thugs,dead beat fathers,undercover homos or colorstruck Uncle Toms. None of this true. But the white power structure created this divide between. They want us to be at each other’s throats. I’m really sick of this so called “gender war”. That’s why I don’t like hearing brothers and sistas talk about deserting their people. We have to realize that we are ALL victims of white supremacy. Only white people benefit when we blame each other for our condition. Brothers blame sistes,sistas blame brothers?? Where does that lead us? I love my sistas and I don’t want to see them or our children suffering. Conscious brothers and sisters need to speak up to the ones that are ignorant. It’s not about being “bougie” or thinking you’re better than someone. It’s about trying to heal our community and black people doing for self. But to blame black people for our condition(created by our enslavers)just doesn’t make sense. I got nothing but love for you sis. But we got to do better. We need to come together. Peace.
Agreed. However committing a crime is a personal choice. No one makes people do it. They choose to.
I guess it’s true no one “forces” you do to a crime. But you have to be able to grasp the full scope of environment and conditioning. Black criminality and violence represent quests for power and outraged protests against a sense of powerlessness and insignificance. They are protective fetishes used to defend against feelings of helplessness and vulnerability. It represents an often misguided struggle for self-affirmation by many blacks while entangled in a White American-spun spider’s web designed and constructed to accomplish our dis-affirmation. The White power structure creates the horrible condition of hopelessness in our communities. When you create unlivable conditions people will become desperate to survive at any costs. And most likely those victims will look like themselves.Also we must keep in mind that they make millions off the prison industrial complex. Crime is big business. Besides to the white elite,as long as it’s “niggers killing niggers”—who cares? right? So it’s not so much about “making’ someone do a crime, as it is “leading” or “persuading” them in that direction. If I can create your condition,I can almost predict your behavior.
But you always have a choice
Where is your ass when Black women are attacked in the media by racist, misogynist Black males?
That is what I wonder. If you and other so called good Black men who loved Black women then you would protect us from being ridiculed in the media and provide for Black women. Other than that, I don’t consider the so called good Black man’s love of Black woman sincere.
The suffering is real. The problem with the advice is that the “ghetto” or Blackistan is whereever a black person goes. When one of us moves in, that’s a sign that everybody ellse is moving out and other black people, other people who have been abused and are now mad are going to surround you soon.
I hear what you’re saying sis. The system of global white supremacy is everywhere. Even many of our own people suffer from negrophobia. They have internalized the hatred from whites–and now hate themselves and anyone that looks like them. We need to cleanse ourselves of white worship and only then will our minds be free.
Cree I disagree. My current community was a STRONG Black middle class haven for many years until the Section-8 renters moved in. In fact, Memphis was so unprepared for it many communities studied how not to do it. Now those same Black middle class families are moving further away into other communities and counties like DeSoto County Mississippi.
Racial unity ends when violence begins. Just because we share the same hue it does not mean we have the same values. The people in the video are the lowest of the low who dwell in and have the Blackistan mentality.
Bougie,isn’t that the point?—That The Section-8 renters did moved in? If there exists a global system of racism (white domination) I can’t escape the ghetto because I AM a ghetto–no matter my behavior, income, or “values.” Get beat up and neglected long enough—no matter how you started out and you’ll be surprised how quickly your behaviors will resemble most of these “section-8 renters.” BTW, even under those conditions, black people murder and injure far fewer people than white folks. White folk’s violence is legal and profitable
The point is skin folk ain’t kin folk.
Surely. I’m just sayin’ I don;t see any evidence that a black people can go anywhere on the planet and escape direct or indirect treatment from the white folks who practice racism (white domination). generations upon generations have taught me that a dignified n**** is still called and treated like a N****. Until we get rid of the global system of racism, I don’t see how any black person can successfully distance himself/herself from other black people that he or she doesn’t want to be grouped with. The racists say that ain’t gonna happen. And, the racists make what they say stick.
I came across your blog by googling ‘can black women escape the black community’. I think I have, but only by moving across the country, which is far away from my family. Due to my single and childless status, my income falls into the middle class. Am I happy now? Absolutely. But I am a pariah to all other women who see me as a threat to the lifestyle they have chosen. In my twenties I DID want to settle down, but it always seemed that I was never willing to “sacrifice” enough to do so. I don’t understand the violence and quest for power of the black man. Hell, any man. I’m pretty sure I’m not gay or racist towards my own people. I just don’t want to take on the responsibilty for the choices of my family and the men that are available to me. I definitely have not put others in a position to bail me out (pun intended), and I would like to receive
that same courtesy. But apparentlg that’s what it means fo be a black eomen I see my sisters struggling with their sons and
husbands, baby’s fathers, and boyfeiends. I racked up so much stress, heartache, and basic mental torture that I eventually questioned the whole concept of family and what I was really getting out of it. I could’ve connected with my sisters by settling down and trying it out so we could all suffer together and bond over our man-troubles, but I decided that I wanted to spend my short life making myself happy. What a concept. I have descovered that what makes me happy isn’t necessarily the model that societies have been advertising for centuries to “keep the race going” and this applies to all races. So keep your kids, your violent teenagers boys, and excuses, this womb will remain empty, while my hand will be filled with a delicious margarita or whatever local drink I find during my world travels. By the way, if you also manage to figure out what I have, I highly recommend a visit to Iceland, its seriously gorgeous!
“So keep your kids, your violent teenagers boys, and excuses, this womb will remain empty, while my hand will be filled with a delicious margarita or whatever local drink I find during my world travels.”
Here here my sista! I am beginning my travel journey in a few months and am at the happiest I have ever been in life. It is all possible by being an escapee of Blackistan. The black male parasites can not STAND the fact that black women have realized that there are so many wonderful options without their toxic presence to weigh us down. I’m enjoying being wined and dined by my amazing white man. He loves my dark skin, my coily natural hair, and is so supportive. Don’t worry about what black mammies say. Black mammies will guilt you into thinking about staying in Blackistan because they have been brain-washed for yrs and generations. It’s 2016 and black women need to realize that they don’t have to stay where they’re not loved and appreciated. Don’t look back girl. Enjoy your new life and your travels. I sure am!
Kushite Prince – talk is cheap. That’s why Asians even in worse start point and conditions than we were made great fortune and prosperity like South Koreans.
I came from South Sudan and I am married a Polish guy. Even in Poland economic wise persons point that Koreans have worse conditions than Somalia in 50’s, were equal to Poland wealth in 80’s and now Korea is one of the most successful economy in world.
But how can persons of African origin be really successful if they (in majority) cherish Malcolm X, a puppet in hands of Muslim revolutionaries. And what Muslims done (and still doing) to Black people greatly surpass whole west slavery by big few times, also Muslim taught Whites how to enslave Black Africans, not mention that 95% of those slaves where put in Latin America+Caribbean where chances to survive were really low.
And those who quote and idolize Malcolm X is real oppressors of Black race, since his violent concept of racial frictions put Blacks where they are now. Even Latinos are angry toward Blacks and hostile takeover Black neighborhoods one by one. That is because of Black gangs (descendants of Muslim misoginism and Malcomesque hip/hop culture), who grown on thoughts of Malcom X and other charlatans were highly abusive to Latinos, so this finally erupted with reverse anger toward Blacks even in Compton.
So what You expect from others, while Blacks around the world had been more and more unwanted. And that growing trends. Look at China. What Chinese done to Blacks? Nothing, but Blacks steal murder at far bigger rate than Chinese. Same eastern European countries. Is from there racism spread in Western Europe.
So face the truth, change Yourself and don’t let alien post-islamistic ideology to shape Your life, since this is not even African, but Asiatic ideology.
Read about South Sudan from where I came from, and YOu learn that Black+islam=oppression of Black people. Thus quatation means Malcom X is enemy not leader.
I am in the middle of escaping Blackistan. I live in a mixed community and, for the most part, I no longer date Black men due to a serious clash in beliefs. One of the main reasons in which I have stopped dating Black men is the fact that I advocate for abstinence and most Black men would try to push a “try it before I buy it” attitude but when they find out that I’m abstinent, they would act “fake” and pretend that they never said anything like that, etc.
However, I have a problem with people, including Black women, that try to “guilt trip” me for leaving Blackistan. One Black woman was okay with me until she found out that I date White men and then she starting “instigating” a situation in which a Black man with children by several different women started to have a crush on me. The crazy thing is, this woman knows that I am currently taken by a successful White man with no children and never married but she’d rather that I date the unsuccessful, uneducated Black man that has several children by different women and believes that sex should occur before marriage.
How is this right? Why do Black women try to stop other Black women from leaving Blackistan?
I would like to know why y’all bougie black girls won’t help us girls who are awkward and maybe not as well off navigate our way out of blackistan considering the fact that oasis away from blackistan is not cheap.
I feel your pain, taken me 10 long years to escape from a toxic family. I used think there was something wrong with me, till i fell upon some wise words and now i finally see that i was raised by a narcissist parent (specifically narc toxic womb).
Sis if your immediate elders are holding you back always second guessing your ideas, but then maybe a couple of weeks down the line they try to say the same thing to you. Get a second job, get a weekend job, save your income and find someone to lodge with, move away.
Books to read in this order
Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff (read it, twice)
–>Think And Grow Richer by Neelly Fuller
-> Go get yourself some downloads of AKT’s Vagina Power, Penus Power MommaDaughter and DaddyDaughter Drama audio books (they are fun to listen to with some raw truths, it’ll make you sad and laugh all at the same time)
Then go back and read Think And Grow Richer again
–>nextSunTzu’s Art Of War, The Prince, Mein Kampf, Steven Biko
To really see just how stagnant BMs have become read Cheikh Anta Diop, Walter Rodney (1972), then read Plato’s Cave
After all that reading, you’ll be done in 5 months easily. Please get yourself the prettiest notebook you ever saw and take a weekend at the park and write down all the little things you would like to do, the museum, go to water world, how much you need to earn to get a mortgage, what part time jobs are you willing to do to top-up your income, make your “to do list” and tick them off one each day.
Pretty basic isn’t it, but,… ever notice how we are the only daughters bullied whenever we prioritise our own peace of mind???
— The men are jealous, they have run out of excuses and they know it, hence the creation of blackistan and ‘race first’ and ‘what about unity..why you leaving us (LeSigh)’.
— When it comes down to it, 80% of BM use BW to;
[A] raise marks at school & work/
[B] emotional punchbaging (it’s hard out here being a pimp…)/
[C] economic punchbags (bail out/half rent)
[D] sex toy (ideal target is a ‘single & happy … they love to traumatise women, sociopathy is their chosen lifestyle)
Figure your likes and dislikes, prioritise making lifelong friends who support your aspirations. And read the principals of Maat, it is 100% applicable and remember Reciprocity = Reciprocessing
Life is too short find out what makes you fulfilled+happy and stay on that journey. Get yourself a mentor everyone needs one.
The only way out is Reciprocessing EVERYONE in your life, like I want to adopt but i cut so many toxic people out my life i now have to search for new friends so my future children have a healthy social life. These things are game changers when we reach 45, we need good networks so our children aren’t forced to pick mates from polluted waters
I’m a deep, dark-skinned black woman in my early 30s, and live in the deep south of the USA. I’m single and child-free. One might assume that since I live in this part of the country that I’d have more problems by white racists but nope, White males have treated me better than black males. My experience dealing with black males has been a misery. I know that this colorism that many black males have began in the home. I have been shitted on by them ever since I was a child. It began with black male relatives. As I grew up black male teens and younger guys would make fun of my skin color, my kinky natural hair, and physically assaulted me. It wasn’t until I was in my mid 20s that I began to love my skin, hair, and features. I also started looking elsewhere for love.
I have recently left Blackistan. I have a great career and will be packing up and moving to a much nicer neighborhood in a few months. I have been dating a very sweet, respectful and financially-established white male that adores me. I am uplifted, worshiped, and treated so well by him. I should have dated white males sooner. I am happier now than I have ever been.
Black women, go where you’re celebrated, not tolerated. Be with a man that respects you. You deserve it. You’re not put on earth to be baby mama #8 to some f*ck boy that refuses to take care of his kids. You’re not put on this earth to give out samples of your p*ssy to Ray Ray & Pookie just because they smiled and complimented you. If you have kids by a bum *ss f*ck boy black male then let the court system handle it. He went half on the baby and you nor the child should go through it alone. Don’t let the bum have anymore of your p*ssy. He gets no more samples. If the loser is crazy then try to leave him asap. Cut all ties with him and everyone that he carries. Take the advice at the end of the Youtube video and move in with a like-minded woman in a safe neighborhood and don’t post about it on social media.
If you’re single, child-free take charge and be especially selective about who you give your time to. Be bougie! He complimented you and then asked for your number?? Tell him, “Thanks but I don’t give out personal info” Gather your things, get up, and leave. F that. It shouldn’t be that easy to get you. Make men WORK for your attention! You’re the prize, not him. I don’t care how handsome he may be. Who cares if he is left standing there cursing and what not. Don’t let black men silence you into submission. If you are interested in the guy then you get his number. You call him if and when YOU’RE ready to talk.
Don’t listen to black males that say “You’re running into the arms of the white master and leaving the black community”. He’s just another black female basher. Black males have been dipping into non-black women’s p*ssies for centuries and now that black women are tired and fed up w/ black males crap now it’s supposedly a problem when she dates non-black males. lol. He doesn’t want you to leave because that means one less black woman that will serve him his “sammich” and wash his nasty underwear when he gets home after banging some other woman down the street. That same idiot probably just finished watching his favorite Youtube channel about bashing black females. Some black males HATE black women yet they expect black women to hang around and serve them. No no. Those days are just about over. Black women, run for the hills. Run to the arms of non-black men now. Stop wasting your time, money, youth, bodies, and resources on these lames that only want to destroy you and the black community. If the black male leech says something about “Oh, white men only want you because he has a fetish for black women” don’t worry. If those white men are treating you better and taking care of you on top of that then what seems to be the problem???! Absolutely nothing!
Black male idiots say that black women should stay home, take care of the kids, have more kids, wash the dishes and clothes, cook every single day, clean the crap ring out of the toilets, run the errands, babysit his kids by other women, iron his clothes, and still expects black women to also work full time and be readily available to sex him down every night when he gets home from “looking for a job” lol. This black male idiot is not only lazy but he’s verbally and physically abusive, rude, and he lacks substance. He’s uneducated and doesn’t want more out of life. He is pitiful. Yet he feels that black women should serve him anyway. He puts black women down so much that it effects their self esteem and she no longer believes others would want her. That’s his goal. He wants access to her youth, her body, her money, and he wants to be waited on hand and foot. F*cking loser. They say that white women do it and black women should too. Well, what they don’t understand is that white women have white partners that take care of them and treat them very well. Their partners actually have jobs lol. The sweet thing is that after this “super woman” that black male idiots talk about finishes doing all of this “super things” around the house she has a nice deposit in the bank account or cash in hand in the form of an allowance by their white male partners. That’s right. White males give their wives/girlfriends an allowance if they want them to stay home/be a homemaker and play “super woman”. White males understand and appreciate a hard-working homemaker and her time. Some companies charge $XX amount to clean, cook, laundry services charge a certain amount. The list goes on and on. When you finish adding all of that up a lot of $ would be spent to take care of a home. What does the black male loser have to offer in this regard?!? Absolutely NOTHING!! Why in the hell would a black woman do all of that for nothing??!! If a man doesn’t work then he doesn’t eat. Black women, don’t do sh*t for black male losers if he’s not going to do right by you. These black male idiots don’t deserve the super woman treatment if they’re not going to treat black women well nor PAY THEM WELL. I’m done 🙂
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